You know what NBA teams do as soon as they get the new season schedule? They circle when they’re up against their rival teams. We all do this to some extent. We do this with friends, colleagues, clients, family, and enemies. We circle them red ink in our mental weekly or yearly calendars.
Why? With them, we need to create more energy before and after interacting. We may even play out how the interaction a hundred times, finding different ways to conform ourselves to save our energy.
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